Wednesday, August 8, 2007

Who can I trust?

The people that are close to us are always the people that we trust the most. Naturally the people that are the closes to us are our family members. These are the people that know our deepest darkest secrets. We are prone to opening up to our family since we are connected genetically to these people. They are supposed to be our support system. The people that we lean on when times get hard. They are the shoulder to cry on. They will be there for you when no one else is. Does this not sound like the perfect set up? You have this group of people bond to you for life by these microscopic genes. And because of this bond they are supposed to be your unconditional support system. Well I hate to break it to all of you that thought this was the perfect idea but it all does not always work out this well. I no longer trust a person so easily just because they are related to me by blood. The bottom of the line is that people will be people and their and their true personalities will shine through no matter how thick the bonds. Often times those who are closes to you will be the ones that hurt you the most. They have everything to hold against you and to use to their advantage. Because you open up to your family they turn things around all the time. My family is infamous for these types of tricks. Using your weakness against you. If you allow these people to use you sins and or pains against you then you are only allowing them to win the eternal battle you verses the universe.

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